Latihan praktik yang dilakukan berdasarkan buku Eat That Frog halaman 14. Tulis 10 tujuan yang ingin dicapai di tahun 2024, tapi tuliskan dengan kalimat seolah-olah tujuan-tujuan tersebut sudah tercapai, kemudian tentukan yang mendatangkan dampak paling positif! 1. Saya telah konsisten berolahraga (bersepeda ke kantor, latihan beban di kos, dan ke gym di weekend) 2. Saya memiliki berat badan 70 Kg dengan massa otot signifikan 3. Saya telah mencapai total donor darah 40 kali 4. Saya telah membaca selesai 12 buku 5. Saya memiliki skor TOEFL 600 6. Saya berhasil menabung 50 juta 7. Saya berhasil menerbitkan 1 penelitian di jurnal (dan mengirimkan ke surat kabar) 7. Saya telah rajin sholat berjamaah di mesjid maupun sholat malam dan dhuha (serta rawatib) 9. Saya telah rajin mengaji dan mengikuti kajian (dan menuliskan di catatan kajian) 10. Saya telah rajin berpuasa sunnah (senin kamis, ayyamul bidh, dan puasa daud) Semua tujuan tersebut adalah sesuatu yang secara aktif dapat saya kontrol,
Before anyone wondering, no I’m not suicidal. I’m really afraid to die… but sometimes I couldn’t lift myself up to face this harsh reality either… This note isn’t my last note nor it is my suicide note, or whatever. This note is a closure, something that I needed for a long time, something that will serve me as a reminder that suicide is not a solution but rather another problem that will 100% spawn much more problems for people around me. What I wrote here is only a fiction about what would probably happened if I did end my life. Not to fantasize about dying or anything but this is just a reminder and an EVEN MORE reason why I shouldn’t give in… ============================== The day after I killed myself. The first one who will noticed my disappearance is probably my wife. Not contacting her for longer than 24 hours is already a cue that something is going on. I’ve told her so many times that I’m tired of living our marriage long-distance like this, I want to be by her side al